Do you want it to last forever?

Moving in because your lease is up or because it’s cheap are not good reasons to start living with your boyfriend. They should be thought of as icing on the cake…not the entire fattening dessert. The main point of co-habitation is to take things to the next level. Some people even wait to move-in with each other until they’re engaged, showing that they plan on being with each other for the long haul. Bottom line is this: Don’t move in with someone unless you know you’re with the right person. You wouldn’t marry someone without this knowledge…so don’t move in with them either. Keep in mind that the hardest part of a divorce is usually the moving out part…

Relationships: No need to rush

Relationships need to develop slowly. What this means is that if you are meant to be together long-term, then you'll have PLENTY of time to get to know each other. Both trust and respect are not earned right off the bat, so it only makes sense that the relationship move slowly, too. There is no need to rush. There are several things in a relationship that can be rushed, including the following:

1. Sex
2. Meeting the parents
3. Commitment
4. Marriage

Sex is by far the most rushed aspect of relationships. However, sex too soon usually backfires. Women know that if men are really interested in them, then the dudes will want to rush sex because dudes think that women become automatically attached if they have sex with them. However, dudes may be surprised to know that this is not necessarily the case. Women know that dudes will have sex with just about anyone, so the fact that you've chosen to have sex with that woman doesn't make her feel special. If it was sex she was after, she could have gotten it from just about any dude she wanted.

The real way to a woman's heart is to RESPECT the woman by showing her that you are not just wanting her for sex. Hang out with her, treat her special, cuddle with her, caress her face, passionately kiss her, whatever you do, hold the sex for later. And I'm talking for as long as possible. Women lose interest in men who have sex too early, just like men do. Women don't have their minds made up about dudes right off the bat and it takes time for us to see your true colors. Trust me, resist the temptation.